Interesting
psychology/human behaviour is an interesting subject........unfortunately, i haven had the chance to delve into it further.........which in a way might be a blessing, cos digging further might jus get me tired of it real quick........
had a discussion with some frens over drinks last nite regarding something i mentioned on this blog a few days back.......it was abt how when a guy sees an attractive lady, something in him stirs......and that something is nothing romantic......
again, it has highlighted to me the fact that sometimes, pple dun seem to read things the way that u intend things to be read.........much like the whole singaporean debate on moral ethics and something something way back.........i had made a comment on that too, only to have a fren who read it, take it the wrong way and me having to clarify myself..........
so wat has that gotta do wif psych/human behaviour........i find it interesting to watch how pple communicate wif each other.........when they discuss things.......the dynamics of it all.......and it has been proven over and over again, whether via print or voice, true communication is often lacking...........A never understands B, and B never understands A even though they are both talking to each other......no matter how much one thinks he/she understands the other but the other doesnt understand him/her.........both dun understand each other..........
of course, then there are times when both do understand each other........and that's when both have been doing what is expected in the first place.......listening........
was talking to 4 frens last nite.........and of which, i only managed to understand 2 and get them to understand me..........the other 2 were jus stuck......regardless of whether we agreed on the topic at hand, that's beside the point...........
listening is interesting.........and i think it would be safe for me to give girls the credit of doing it better than the guyz..........guyz tend to have more wax in their ears........
k, any ladies reading this now, i promise there wun be anything stirring when your chests swell with pride........ :p
had a discussion with some frens over drinks last nite regarding something i mentioned on this blog a few days back.......it was abt how when a guy sees an attractive lady, something in him stirs......and that something is nothing romantic......
again, it has highlighted to me the fact that sometimes, pple dun seem to read things the way that u intend things to be read.........much like the whole singaporean debate on moral ethics and something something way back.........i had made a comment on that too, only to have a fren who read it, take it the wrong way and me having to clarify myself..........
so wat has that gotta do wif psych/human behaviour........i find it interesting to watch how pple communicate wif each other.........when they discuss things.......the dynamics of it all.......and it has been proven over and over again, whether via print or voice, true communication is often lacking...........A never understands B, and B never understands A even though they are both talking to each other......no matter how much one thinks he/she understands the other but the other doesnt understand him/her.........both dun understand each other..........
of course, then there are times when both do understand each other........and that's when both have been doing what is expected in the first place.......listening........
was talking to 4 frens last nite.........and of which, i only managed to understand 2 and get them to understand me..........the other 2 were jus stuck......regardless of whether we agreed on the topic at hand, that's beside the point...........
listening is interesting.........and i think it would be safe for me to give girls the credit of doing it better than the guyz..........guyz tend to have more wax in their ears........
k, any ladies reading this now, i promise there wun be anything stirring when your chests swell with pride........ :p
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